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Post Colonial Love
A man told me recently that I lack the social constructs to be successfully partnered and these are my thoughts.
Aug 45 min read


Are All Relationships Transactional
Are all relationships transactional? What happens when someone isn't aware that the relationship is a transaction or of what is being traded
Jan 294 min read


Men can't Plan - Have We lost the plot?
If a man can only model what he sees, is he really a men, or is he a lemming?
Nov 7, 20244 min read


The problem with Loving Love and Wanting to be Chosen
The problem with loving love, is that it encourages people to get into and stay in relationships for the sake of being in one.
Oct 24, 20244 min read


Towards an Improved Version of Family and Community
The nuclear family is fragile and unsustainable. We need to create a modern clan structure that can withstand the pressure of modern life.
Jun 16, 20244 min read


Men Lately
Newsday columnist Debbie Jacob recently wrote an article titled, “Boys in Crisis: It’s worse than expected.” In it she points to...
Jan 9, 20245 min read


Domestic Violence - An Ode to Toxicity
I was scrolling Twitter earlier today when one of our local media outlets, tweeted a headline which read “Man shoots ex-wife at mall,...
Nov 21, 20234 min read
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